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Unreal

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It is OCTOBER 17th.  My oldest and youngest are outside in bathing suits, playing in water!  Yeah, it is that warm still.

I am SO not going to complain.

However, when it is time to go to Boo at the Zoo tonight, I will have to fight with them to get them to take jackets.  See, they just don’t get that while it is 80 now, when the sun goes down the temp will drop….quickly.

But first my middle child has to come home from her sleepover if we are going to do anything.  So, I guess I had better make a call and see when that might be.  It should be anytime.

Trying…

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Trying to get into a rhythm with blogging again but struggling.

 

It’s been a busy couple weeks at work with a new system being trained and then a go-live.  Have another in a month….much smaller scale but still plenty to do.  Staying very busy.

Cross Country season is over.  Basketball season is here.  Smooth transition into that.  Still working out practice carpooling schedules.

Still trying to keep with the family chore schedule.  Goes great somedays other days it’s a miserable fail.  BUT, that is still better than every day being a FAIL.  I’ll take the small victories.

Hey, I disappeared for a few days

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I always think that the weekend is going to be a great time to sit down and blog.  I am almost always WRONG.  Take this past weekend.  We got in the car at 0530 and drove to Carmel, Indiana for the middle school state cross country championship meet.  AND since hubby is one of the coaches, we were there for almost the entire time.  Oh, and it was COLD AND RAINY the whole time.  Once we left the course, we stopped at Olive Garden in Castleton for a late lunch then started on the trek home.  We made a detour to pick up our little girls from my family at the Denny’s in their hometown (was a good time for desert after our big, late lunch).  We ended up home around 8pm or so.  SO, yeah, no chores and no blogging.  Sunday was busy catching up from what didn’t get done Saturday, grocery shopping, volleyball game, etc….and once again….no blogging though chores did get done

Why didn’t I use my phone to blog while hubby was driving?  I forgot….  Of course that was one other thing I did Sunday.  I switched back to my original bold because the one I was using was starting to have a sticky trackball.  Well, In the process, I can’t get WP for BB to function correctly.

OK, life is calling.  Need to get kids into jammies and finish a couple other chores.  Have a wonderful Thursday!

Su Zuki

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That is the name that the girls have given Matt’s car.  (It is a Suzuki Grand Vitara).  Well, Su is headed to the shop tomorrow.  We think she may be terminal this time.  Matt thinks that it may be the seal on the rear axle.

You see, Su is a 2000 Grand Vitara that currently has 250,000 miles on it.  It won’t take much of a repair to finally qualify as “too much”.

It has been a great car, gotten us through some of the rare Indiana 2 foot snow (that never gets removed except by nature from the side streets–because it just doesn’t happen often enough to keep that kind of equipment) and much more common southern Indiana snow storms.  Lots of road trips to bike races.  Oh, and it was MY car to start with.  I drove it until the day I went to the hospital with Tori and knew that we would not be able to fit all 3 kids in to bring her home.  I only took over the van at that point.  :)

So we will have the car looked at in the morning and then decide if we cross the state line and head into Kentucky on Sunday (no auto sales in Indiana on Sunday) to look for another beater.  Matt puts far too many miles on a car for work to get a nice car and we simple refuse to go into debt any further for a car.  Yes D.R., we are listening.  We are SO close to debt free that we just can’t stand the thought of owing again.  We will find something for 5k or under and it will work well for transporting hubby and his repair supplies all over the area.  Unfortunately, we won’t be able to do much on Friday or Saturday due to other activities already planned (School’s Fall Family Fun nighton Friday and middle school State XC championships in Carmel, IN on Saturday)

Crossing our fingers that we are overreacting to the symptoms!

***UPDATE*** looks like it is not as bad as he thought. Mechanic is checking on parts but we think she will continue to be a part of our family for a while longer. In the meantime we will keep working on the last bit of our debt snowball and saving to replace her with cash.

still hate lists

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I still hate the idea of having lists of thing like chores stuck on the fridge. I know they work though. I make them to shop for groceries, to not miss things at work, to not forget to pack things….. So why do I hate that stinkin’s chore list I finally made? I think that in my head I am under the impression is should be able to ‘do it all’. All the time. Reality is that I CAN NOT. I, no WE, need the visual reminder. There are simply too many things going on.

And you know what? It seems to be working. The kids think it’s fun to CHOOSE something from the list rather than being required to do the same things every night. The house is looking better with just a bit of focus. And I feel like I actually have more ‘me’ time. (Like 15 minutes but I will take it!)

spoiled kids :)

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Movies, books, puzzles, crafts…….anyone?  Picked up and vacuumed.  Will last HOURS, only because I did it after they went to bed.  (They dusted before they went to bed!)

So far, so good

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Alexa has had quite a bit of homework and cross country practice/meets.  Piper and Tori are excited to help clean…..as long as they get to play with a squirt bottle!  Whatever, it helps.  Went to Lex’s XC meet this evening and stopped off for dinner after.  That was also a huge help because now, I have empty kitchen sinks and a dishwasher ready to accept the breakfast dishes and then get started!

Oh and with less kitchen cleanup, I was able to clean bathrooms tonight.  YAY

Setting goals

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OK, so I am tired of stepping over things constantly.  And of dirty floors and cluttered counters.  I was feeling like I was getting a bit better at finding balance between kids and work.  Then I realized that balance MUST include this house.  It has been neglected.  Woefully neglected.  Like, I won’t invite you in, it’s a pit, neglected.  It’s VERY lived in.

Since we have been following e-Mealz and Total Money Makeover, we’ve been spending more time home.  Time to mess things up?  Or just time to notice how messed up things are?  Whatever…..I’m printing some blank calendars.  I’m adding “house chores”.  Daily chores, weekly chores, monthly chores and seasonal kinds of chores.  EVERYONE is going to be expected to pitch in.  The current chores the kids have will become part of the list.

Honestly, it sounds huge.  But in my heart I don’t really think it will be.  Just need that reminder in front of all of us.  And I’m not going all clean freak here, just want some balance in where the house is too.  Have to get back to getting little people to pick up after themselves.  Then I can quickly vacuum.  Currently that often goes by the wayside because the kids have left SO much stuff laying on the floor, etc.  I’m not crazy enough to think that there won’t be days missed.  I’m positive there will be.  Practices, games, lessons, issues at work that demand attention and heck just plain OLD worn out momma sometimes.  I know we can make an improvement though and I don’t think it will take much.  I hope that it won’t take much.  :)

So, wish me luck with my new grand plan.

Perhaps I should make myself accountable here.  We’ll see!

Next, I have to work on myself and taking MUCH better care of me.  Baby steps.

Back to School

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Today’s the day. End of summer vacation is here, the kids go back to school today. We officially have a first grader and a sixth grader. Pictures later, for now I must work on getting them up. And to school on time.

wow, how’s that happen

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You send your 11 year old to church camp. She comes back with a new crush. (Came home Friday). Take her to church (not your church) on Sunday evening for the closing events for the week’s camp and she’s practically flying because she gets to see THE boy. Take her out to eat after program and watch the text mmessages start flying. By the time we leave the restaurant, she has a boyfriend. Gotta laugh cause she didn’t even know his last name at that point. And of course this was ALL through a mutual friend. OH, and I love this—-she asked my permission to be his girlfriend. :) They’re 11. They don’t go to the same school or the same church. How long will a text relationship between 2 eleven year olds last? So sure honey, you and have your first boyfriend. awwww

But really…….can I have my little girl back now?

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